You may have been asked at one time or another whether you were a top, bottom, or versatile. Some gay men use these labels to identify themselves or to find partners that match their preferences. Others prefer a more loose interpretation of their sexual roles. How To Know If You're A Top or Bottom A person's sexual role has more to do with personal preference than how masculine or feminine they are or may appear. Being more masculine does not make one a top, just as being a bottom doesn't mean a person is less dominant or more effeminate
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Gay Sex Positions Guide
Unlike the "top" , the partner being penetrated during gay anal sex is referred to as the "bottom. Some associate a gay bottom with being the less dominate partner in a sexual or romantic relationship, but that's not always the case. Being the sexual bottom or bottoming is a preference and may differ from established dominance roles. Anal Sex Basics : Gay men aren't naturally born to have anal intercourse. Bottoming takes practice and preparation.
Best gay sex position for 1st time bottom
For whatever reason, heterosexual men and women seem to believe that gay men like myself hold secrets to everything wonderful and fabulous in life, including when it comes to knowing the best sex positions and how to have truly great sex. OK, perhaps some of you don't — specifically, those of you who think being gay is "just so wrong. This article is not required reading for you.
Andy in New York has sent us in this piece about what the bottom can do to help make sex better. I disagree and the following is a list of things to try as a bottom. Take his hand or a couple of his fingers and gently lead them up and down your crack to your anus. Tops usually pick up on this and start by lubing up a couple of fingers and working your hole a little bit.